Oh My, You Tour Guide You

Over the years I've learned to strike the balance of having my friends in town, getting quality time and keeping my sanity, while getting my own work done.

• Before they arrive, I like to send them my favorite links and resources - and although they're my friends, I realize they don't all read my blog as closely as they should ;)
• I'm a nice friend, but only so nice, so I make sure to send them my "Arriving in Paris" post so that they know how to get from the airport into the city. And not only do they feel empowered on having done it on their own, but I can sleep in and get more of my stuff done, which means more QT with them!.
• Greet them with their very own "Plan de Paris" map book, and pre-paid cellphone loaded with credits. These days many people have phones that work over here, but having a phone you can text message is crucial for meeting up and making plans. (This tip has changed my life!!!)
• I know my friends, and I know what they like, so I always try to plan something we can do together that I know they'll really appreciate. As much as I love the design scene, I know it's not everyone's cup of tea so it's all about digging up something fun for both of us. And I use friends as a great excuse to try new things myself.
• Help friends come up with an itinerary. Since I can only handle the Paris "Top 10" so many times, I typically find it better to send them off on their own. And particularly for places like the Louvre, it's nice for people not to feel rushed. In planning the days (just roughly), I can figure out when I can fit my work in too. Sometimes you feel like you need to be together 24-7, but space can be healthy for everyone.
• While I can't house my friends, I do make every effort to help them find a place to stay. Sometimes I even help my Paris friends out by helping "rent" their apartment while they're on vacation. It's a win-win-win, and I feel less guilty for living in a petit appartement

For the full post, plus a handfull of other great paris tips click here.